The biggest thing that I've learned from being a part of so many weddings (doing makeup for them, attending them, being in them, getting married myself) is that at the end of the day you're married. The wedding is about the marriage and that's what matters. I think everyone that plans a wedding gets caught up on something or another at some point and it's hard not too because planning a big event is stressful. And it does take a lot of planning and moving parts but if the napkins are the wrong color or the flowers aren't exactly right... It doesn't matter.... Those things don't affect your marriage and no one at the wedding will notice or know it was supposed to be a different way. The wedding is the big party to celebrate the marriage so try not to stress too much over it! And it's NOT the best day of your life.... It's the START to the best days of your life. It's the start of what's to come for the future. Enjoy the day, have a great time, and after it's over.... Enjoy the rest of your life with the person you're going to spend it with!